A question about....grammar? culture?

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Posted by Shell
July 1, 2013 4:20 pm 		#1

Sorry, I'm not sure if it is okay to post the question here. I got a question when I read this article:  How Tim from The Office found real love: Amanda Abbington on life with Martin Freeman. 

Because English is not my mother tongue, I don't quite get the meaning of what Martin said, "You left and I wasn't done flirting with you. That's a bit rude."

Who's rude? Martin himself? Or he jokingly accused Amanda of leaving early?
 

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“Why,” said I, glancing up at my companion, “that was surely the bell? Who could come to-night? Some friends of yours, perhaps?”

“Except yourself I have none,” he answered.

—Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, The Five Orange Pips, The Adventures of Sherlock Holms
 
Posted by sj4iy
July 1, 2013 4:34 pm 		#2

It was a joke.  Normally, saying something like that would mean you were offended by it ("you left before I was done"), but since he said "you left before I was done flirting with you", it means that he's saying "I want to keep flirting with you"- IE: a joke ;)

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Posted by Davina
July 1, 2013 9:11 pm 		#3

It is a flirtatious joke.

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Posted by Shell
July 2, 2013 1:14 am 		#4

Thanks. I know it is a joke. That's why Martin is soooo adorable. 

I just want to make sure that when people say "That's a bit rude," usually means "That's a bit rude of you." (According to sj4iy)

Do I get it right? 

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“Why,” said I, glancing up at my companion, “that was surely the bell? Who could come to-night? Some friends of yours, perhaps?”

“Except yourself I have none,” he answered.

—Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, The Five Orange Pips, The Adventures of Sherlock Holms
 
Posted by Wholocked
July 2, 2013 2:10 am 		#5

Not necessarily. It depends on what the "That" refers to. In this context "That" meaning "you left early" so in this case yes he's saying "That's a bit rude of you". But in another context you might be referring to a third person who just let the door slam in your face in which case it would be "That's a bit rude of them".

ETA: Or you might refer to graffiti on a wall as "That's a bit rude" in which case there's no addendum; and 'that' refers to the graffiti

Last edited by Wholocked (July 2, 2013 2:11 am)

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Posted by Shell
July 2, 2013 6:35 am 		#6

Thank you, Wholocked. I got it! 
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(...but what does "ETA" here stand for? estimated time of arrival? )

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“Why,” said I, glancing up at my companion, “that was surely the bell? Who could come to-night? Some friends of yours, perhaps?”

“Except yourself I have none,” he answered.

—Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, The Five Orange Pips, The Adventures of Sherlock Holms
 
Posted by Russell
July 2, 2013 4:31 pm 		#7

Shell wrote:

Thank you, Wholocked. I got it! 
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(...but what does "ETA" here stand for? estimated time of arrival? )

 
Heh...  usually it does!  But in their context, knowing abbreviations that tend to be used on the internet and that they tinkered with their response, I believe the other acronym is Edited To Add.

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Posted by Shell
July 2, 2013 5:48 pm 		#8

Thank you, Russell. 

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“Why,” said I, glancing up at my companion, “that was surely the bell? Who could come to-night? Some friends of yours, perhaps?”

“Except yourself I have none,” he answered.

—Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, The Five Orange Pips, The Adventures of Sherlock Holms
 


 
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