BBC Sherlock Fan Forum - Serving Sherlockians since February 2012 / Let's talk all things lovely about Ben...

**Posted by clareiow** April 12, 2014 6:40 am

Ooooooooo this is exciting! Bet he's buzzing to watch it all come together. Must be weird to watch yourself tho....

**Posted by This Is The Phantom Lady** April 13, 2014 8:21 pm

So, who's watching MTV Movie awards tonight? Ben will not be there I suppose... but if Khan wins he might have made an acceptance video or something?

**Posted by clareiow** April 13, 2014 8:45 pm

Good spot phantom I forgot about that!!! What time is it on tho? Probably early hours of the morning eh?

**Posted by This Is The Phantom Lady** April 13, 2014 8:51 pm

I'm a bit confused about when it's on to be honest... I read somewhere it would be on at 2.30am Danish time, on the screen on MTV it says 3am in English... I will check it out some more!

I'm staying up no matter what...

**Posted by This Is The Phantom Lady** April 14, 2014 1:40 am

BLEH! Mila Kunis won Best Villain...

Seriously.... KHAN!

**Posted by clareiow** April 16, 2014 12:44 pm

Little snippet of gossip emerging this afternoon - and how true it is I have NO IDEA but "sources" say Benedict has himself a lady...

According to the report on showbizspy, they've been dating for a few months, she's not famous and is a career woman. He is keen to keep the relationship under wraps apparently (shame they couldve paid respect to that request...)

As I say it's not confirmed by anyone and it's typical tabloid showbiz goss but if it's true I'm very happy for him. I hope she makes him truly loved. And she is one lucky lady....

**Posted by rebeccaholmes** April 16, 2014 12:51 pm

Very lucky lady indeed if this emerges to be true.

If it is, I wouldn't be able to express my happiness for him enough. Also, I'll be super proud of him for finding someone so worth his time, after all the heartbreaking stuff with Olivia. It's so clear that he'll always be in love with Olivia, and it's truly sad about everything that happened between them.

I'm also glad that he's choosing to keep it private (obviously if the whole thing's true and that's what he's said.) because I know some fans can be quite intrusive, and you can only see it as him looking out for her really, which is really nice of him.

But hey, if he's found someone new, and he's happy, I'm happy too.

**Posted by Tinks** April 16, 2014 1:50 pm

Echoing the above - I don't know what happened with Olivia, but I do think it seemed to have an effect on him - so if true, I hope she makes him feel the most loved, happiest guy in the world

**Posted by gently69** April 16, 2014 1:57 pm

How long lasted his relationship with Olivia? Around 12 years ...
Would be very happy for him if he really has a new girlfriend.

**Posted by Tinks** April 16, 2014 2:01 pm

Yes - some marriages don't last that long, so being single again would be bound to have taken some adjusting to,
If he has found someone, I hope she's a "keeper", and that in time, he feels able to take her to events - premieres and stuff - I've felt a bit sad for him going solo to all these things!

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**Posted by gently69** April 16, 2014 2:03 pm

Imagine he wins an Oscar ... and is alone there ...

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**Posted by Tinks** April 16, 2014 2:12 pm

Yeah, that just shouldn't be.....
Although I'd be glad to be there to support him if he wanted, of course! ;)

**Posted by besleybean** April 16, 2014 2:18 pm

(Not sure the veracity of the latest rumour...but I've had my suspicions,even a name and would know exactly why they would want to keep it under wraps. It would also explain why he's in no rush.)
I am always so happy for Benedict to receive any awards, but even nomination is good.
I don't think it really matters if he is alone.
He could have whoever he wants, so I'm assuming his single status is by choice.

**Posted by This Is The Phantom Lady** April 16, 2014 10:08 pm

If he has, I am so, so happy for him I could cry! He deserves so much love and joy! I just hope he can keep it private, I completely understand why that would be needed, if the rumour is true.

(Slightly bit jealous, but lets be real...)

**Posted by besleybean** April 16, 2014 10:12 pm

(If the rumours are true)I'm not at all jealous, just happy for Benedict and amazed they've managed to keep it secret.

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**Posted by kaye** April 16, 2014 11:58 pm

You know something, when I heard this news about a new girlfriend, my heart just fell into my stomach. It's strange, because I'm a women in my 50s, and of course this is just a crush. It's not like I had a shot at a relationship with him! But, almost as suddenly as the first emotion passed, I had another emotion. Excitement. I am so excited for him! I am almost beside myself thinking he could have finally found his life partner. And of course, I am just dying to know who his wonderful woman is!
I guess i am living vicariously (sp?) though Benedict. I really admire him as a person. He is sort of living the life I would have wanted for myself, and I find that I can experience real joy for him. It's a wonderful feeling.
And, of course, we all knew this day would come and Benedict would not be alone forever. I don't want him to be alone forever.

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**Posted by besleybean** April 17, 2014 7:23 am

Considering the rumour is now in the public sphere, it'll be interesting to see how much longer this lucky lady love will be kept secret.
I imagine the paparazzi in Benedict's front garden AS WE SPEAK,fighting to be the one to get the 1st shot of the mystery woman.
So I hope who ever let this slip, knew exactly what they were doing.

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**Posted by Tinks** April 17, 2014 7:29 am

I hope he's OK with it being out there - if true, of course.

**Posted by SolarSystem** April 17, 2014 7:33 am

Yes, paparazzi in his front garden... that (among other things) is exactly why I personally can understand every celeb who decides to say not one word about his private life to anyone who's not family or friends or agency.
I hope very much for him it's true, but I'd rather not know anything about it if it means that now the tabloids will go crazy and practically hunt him (and her) down.

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**Posted by besleybean** April 17, 2014 7:42 am

Exactly my point.
So was the announcement deliberate, or has someebody messed up, big time?