RavenMorganLeigh wrote:
besleybean wrote:
I have sympathy for her, even though she did shoot my beloved Sherlock.
But he survived and went on to muder somebody.
So it seems a tad unfair to hold any grudge against Mary.
Though, his reasons for it were different. He basically saved Mary and John-- (and probably a whole lot of other people)-- Mary shot Sherlock in order to get what she wanted--she wanted to be able to keep lying to John, and have him never find out the truth about her past.
There's a big, big difference there in motivation. I still maintain that there is this wishful-thinking-romance-novel sort of logic here, that whatever is necessary-- even shooting and killing someone (or even just gravely injuring them) is justifiable if it's to preserve a love relationship. If that's what the writers wanted us to take away from this, I think it's pretty cynical, and reflects badly on women-- and it's a horrible example to set for young girls.
Yes; I think this is a point which is extremely important, and can't be emphasised enough. Shooting someone so your husband won't find out that you have lied to him from first to last is a fundamentally selfish action, and cannot be excused under the heading 'but she did it because she loved her husband'.
It's an appalling way to look at the world, and I really don't think that Moftiss want to leave us with that take home message; after all, what's next? If Mary's enemies come after her, where do we draw the line at what is or is not morally acceptable behaviour in such circumstances? Does John's 'privilege' extend to killing them, or to help her kill them, or just help her hide the bodies?
There is nothing that Mary either does or says to suggest that she would see anything wrong with shooting yet more people if they got between her and what she wanted; Moffat acknowledged this when he said that she had to be outed because the show would otherwise have consisted of a lethal killer nurse wandering around shooting anybody she thought might possibly threaten John and Sherlock.
In choosing to out her by showing us her shooting Sherlock, Moftiss framed it in such a way that we cannot gloss over it; she doesn't put a bullet into CAM, who is, after all, the villain. She puts a bullet into Sherlock, who is far from being an angel, but is on the side of the angels, instead...