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Now this may seem silly going by my presence here and my online activities but it is not really.
Back when I was growing up, (just after the dinosaurs all packed their bags) we as kids played outside. When we got older, we drove beaten up old cars, hung out around Unis & down the 'main drag' and generally socialised with each other.
Nowadays, they Tweet each other, check each others' FaceBook pages and leave messages therefor parties, etc. They post " I am feeling sick today", " Mum just grounded me', ' I feel sad', etc.
They get texts from each other " where are you?', ' what are you doing now?'. If someone wants to ask you something, they use the mobile phone to find you.
Yes, they still go out etc, probably just as much as we did. But, we also had 'quiet time' ; we had moments when we could be alone, we had a day or two when we could be by ourselves.
If we felt sad, we'd work through it, see things weren't so bad & lift our chins & get back on track. Sometimes we'd confide in one or two people but for the most part, we didn't feel any pressure in 'opening up' to everyone. We didn't have to share all our thoughts etc.
Times have changed & for most of the younger generation (for those of you who haven't QUITE worked it out, I just turned 49) it would be a bad day if they left home without at least their mobile phone/iphone/whatever fangled thing they use these days.
OMG, what if Jane wants to tell me where to meet her? What if John needs to talk to me?
For me, its a good day to NOT have a connections with everyone every minute of the day.
If they want me, they can call me at home. If it's really urgent, they'd send the Police.
With so much of the world wanting to be connected all the time, it is no wonder that people feel so much stress.
I dare you to leave your phone at home for one day.
I have so much more to say on this subject but will leave it open for comments first. (Because frankly I am boring myself now, lol. I say this all the time!)
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So, you think we should have a connection-free day? I could probably manage a couple of hours... (let's try starting gently!)
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You can do it!
you have the canon on your kindle now so it need not be technology free, but yeah. close the rest of the world out for a few hours. Independent thoughts will be yours.
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my Mum does get a bit frantic when she sees my post count!
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Tee hee hee hee
Well tell her while you are on here, the forum Grandma is watching over you.
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Oh this is so funny.
I have been home from work for about 6 hours; just heard that funny sound in the speakers that usually says someone's mobile will ring & I remembered: " I left the phone in the car".
LOL!
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kazza,
I am right there with you. I don't hate modern technology; in fact, I'm very thankful for the conveniences and quality-of-life improvements it can offer. Yet, I feel our modern culture has allowed technology almost to enslave us. The machines have, in fact, taken over. Reliance on technology has robbed us of times of deep reflective thought, appreciation of the natural world around us, and the special closeness that comes only through live interaction with one another.
Maybe I'm a fuddy-duddy, but I absolutely refuse to involve myself in Facebook, Twitter, and the like. I don't get on forums--I'm only on here because I love the show, and also love interacting with like-minded people all around the world (Croatia! How exciting!).
I don't have a cell phone. My wife, who homeschools our children, has one for emergencies, but it's one of those pay-as-you-go deals that you have to add minutes to when you run out. We live on a farm, and my children (ages 8 and 3) have never even watched television. We have one "telly", but only use it to rent movies to watch when we need to escape for a few hours. It's amazing how our kids entertain themselves and truly enjoy life just being out in the garden, petting the horses and cows, feeding the chickens, etc. Life doesn't get any better than that.
We once took an entire week for an interesting "experiment". We had just finished reading (again) The Long Winter by Laura Ingalls Wilder. This is the account of where they ran out of food during a particularly cold, long winter and had nothing but potatoes to eat, water to drink, and straw to twist to burn in the fire to stay as warm as they could. So, our family actually turned off all the breakers in the house except what we needed to keep the fridge and stove running, etc. We used oil lamps to see, and all week long ate only bread and potatoes, and drank milk or water. It got kinda interesting, but we all look back fondly on our week of "disconnected-ness", and you know what we found? We weren't disconnected at all--we had each other, and no distractions, and it was (for the most part) glorious. Now, in all honesty, we were all very glad when it was over, but still, it was something we'll all remember forever.
Well, maybe that was TMI, but your thread strikes a chord. Thanks for posting...
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Must say your life style sounds pretty idyllic from here. Though I do get to spend a lot of my time with horses of various sizes, ages and personalities. Also have 2 dogs, a black and white English Springer Spaniel, called Koby and a Cairn Terrier cross Llasa Apso called Rosie who is an escape artist and a bit of a terror; she's also black and white and looks a bit like a Gremlin.
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Oh God. I will NEVER go anywhere without my phone. I can't survive for more than half an hour without checking Facebook, Twitter, my emails, this forum or my RP forum. I was on holiday last week, my parents suggested that perhaps I could try going for a week without going on the internet. HA. I laughed in their face.