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May 16, 2017 11:32 am  #1821


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Just leaving a note that I won't be around here any longer  - probably for quite some time. My mind has been on Sherlock for a long time recent years and it was amazing but right now I feel I am moving on to other things. The last episode somehow... I don't know, it was an end story-wise but also for me emotionally, it felt like a bittersweet break-up. Sounds strange to say that, but I just realised that I haven't watched any Sherlock or followed related stuff for quite some time and didn't feel the need for it, and that this forum suddenly felt like a place "I used to be".
Can I just say: I loved the time here. I loved sharing this devotion. I still love everything that was given to us. I guess I will be back if there is any new Sherlock on the horizon - I won't stop praying there will be. Thanks & cu then. So long


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May 16, 2017 1:32 pm  #1822


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Goodbye, Whisky. Hope to see you again one day. http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/smile.png


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May 16, 2017 2:57 pm  #1823


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Thank you for saying goodbye! You will be more than welcome for future Sherlock!


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May 16, 2017 3:19 pm  #1824


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Goodbye, Whisky. I always liked chatting with you. I hope you enjoy your time away and that maybe one day you can return to Sherlock as a familiar friend or family. But only if you want to, of course.


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May 16, 2017 3:53 pm  #1825


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So sad, I've been struggling with my own feelings too.
But all the best Whisky, you know where we are!


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May 16, 2017 5:18 pm  #1826


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God speed and fair weather Whiskey!   http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/happy.png


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May 30, 2017 3:57 pm  #1827


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This isn't absence really but after season 4 I'm feeling a but disheartened and deleting this account. 


 
 

May 30, 2017 4:30 pm  #1828


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deranged stray wrote:

This isn't absence really but after season 4 I'm feeling a but disheartened and deleting this account. 

If you read that: I am sorry to hear you are leaving! :-(


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May 30, 2017 4:30 pm  #1829


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Why not endure your discouragement together with us? It's the best way to deal with it. Just stay.
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May 30, 2017 6:34 pm  #1830


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Aw, please don't go.


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July 29, 2017 9:14 pm  #1831


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I have been absent from the forum for nearly a full two weeks.
There is a reason for this.
Well there was always a reason in the past, on the two previous occasions I disappeared for much longer.  Those times, it was just me being petty and falling out with the forum.
This time, it's rather different.
I have already contacted the boss, mainly because we have met in real life.
So I am really sorry to have to officially say that tragically on Sunday, 16th July, my husband eventually lost his battle with chronic depression and took his own life.
As I am sure you will all understand, my life has been altered irreversibly and obviously my priorities have somewhat changed.
I am not saying I will never be back here again, but certainly my visits may be more sporadic.
I do want to complete my re-watching of  the whole show and I hope to be able to discuss future, exciting projects.
But I will just have to see how things go.


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July 29, 2017 10:36 pm  #1832


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I'm so, so sorry to hear that, besley. Take all the time you need, I understand why you will need to be spending time on other things and on yourself. I hope you have support from your family and friends around you. I am sending you mine, as well. Hugs from across the pond.


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July 30, 2017 3:17 am  #1833


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Dear Besley, my sincere condolences.  I understand too well how life-changing it is when a loved one succumbs to the horrible insidious disease of depression.   Take good care of yourself.  May all the real love around you (including all the amazing love YOU've shared) and happy memories sustain you.

 

July 30, 2017 3:26 am  #1834


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As one of the other 'regulars', I'm not around as much either except with lurking, just due to activity and not having as much to say, but glad I stopped in and saw this, since you were one of the other long-timers who was always nice to read posts from.  Just wanted to say so so sorry to hear that!  Also hoping you have the support of family and friends around, and take care, however much we see you around here again...


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July 30, 2017 4:45 am  #1835


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You have my every sympathy BB.  I will hold a thought for you in my heart while you do whatever you need to do.  Take care of yourself and come back when you can. 


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"Life is full of wonder, Love is never wrong."   Melissa Ethridge

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July 30, 2017 5:43 am  #1836


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Dear BB

I am so sorry to hear that. You know that this forum will always be here as your refuge from the world if you need it, no matter how long your absence might be. I'm sending you strength for you and your family.


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July 30, 2017 6:58 am  #1837


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I am so very sorry to hear that, besley, and send you my heartfelt
condolences. I wish you much strength and support in this difficult time. Please come back anytime you feel the forum might help you. Until then, my thoughts are with you.


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"To fake the death of one sibling may be regarded as a misfortune; to fake the death of both looks like carelessness." Oscar Wilde about Mycroft Holmes

"It is what it is says love." (Erich Fried)

“Enjoy the journey of life and not just the endgame. I’m also a great believer in treating others as you would like to be treated.” (Benedict Cumberbatch)

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July 30, 2017 7:12 am  #1838


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This is dreadful, besley.
I wish you and your family all the support you can get.
Sending you a virtual hug.
Come back here when you feel like it.
 


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July 30, 2017 7:32 am  #1839


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I'm so sorry, Besleybean. My heart goes out to you and your family.

 

July 30, 2017 8:21 am  #1840


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Thanks, guys. x


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