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January 29, 2015 8:30 pm  #1801


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

I agree with you, Zatoichi. The amount of pain she knew she would put Sherlock through only shows her lack of empathy and / or her selfishness.


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January 29, 2015 8:49 pm  #1802


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

It doesn't help that they play that aspect up too - repeated references to morphine, etc. 

 

 

January 29, 2015 8:52 pm  #1803


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

Well SH is probably the only person in the world that could of survived that shot. Do we know of anyone else having a mind palace that can restart the heart after the medics have quit?Thats what we were shown.
Mary has a history of killing people...
Sherlock has a history of telling lies...
( season finale needs controversy therefore delib. ambiguity )
Room for doubt IMHO.

 

January 29, 2015 8:53 pm  #1804


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

Liberty wrote:

It doesn't help that they play that aspect up too - repeated references to morphine, etc. 

 

Yep, or that they let her kick that coin so Sherlock has to bend over and pick it up with a fresh wound..

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January 29, 2015 8:54 pm  #1805


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

Schmiezi wrote:

Liberty wrote:

Harriet wrote:

Because she wanted to keep John in doubt whether she actually wanted to kill Sherlock.
She knew she would loose him if she had shot Sherlock in the head and John found out about that.
But by killing him with a shot in the chest she could make John doubt it was by intention.

That doesn't quite follow, though.  It takes Sherlock's explanation for John to believe that Mary didn't mean to kill him.  That wouldn't exist if Sherlock was dead.  (I mean the story really struggles to be plausible as it is.   It really needs Sherlock to be alive to have any hope of it being at all believable). 

And also, if Sherlock was dead, John wouldn't have found out about Mary.
 

I think that if Sherlock had died, Mycroft would have found out and told John it had been Mary. If she is truely as clever as Sherlock (or even more so) she must have known that. Then she would have also needed the benefit of doubt.

So you think Mary was assuming that John would find out anyway, but thought he would believe she was trying to save Sherlock's life?  I just find it really difficult to buy - if I try to imagine Mary explaining that she'd called the ambulance, tried to carry out surgery, etc. - I just don't think it's at all convincing unless Sherlock is alive.  And it probably needs Sherlock to say it, not Mary.   John trusts Sherlock in way that he doesn't trust Mary. 

(Imagine Sherlock and Mary had disagreed over what had happened - who would John believe?)

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January 29, 2015 9:11 pm  #1806


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

Magnussen wasn't interested in Mary or John or Sherlock.
Sherlocks death would have solved Marys problem with Magnussen......he would have hoarded the info on Mary....as he did....and maybe used Sherlocks death to get @ Mycroft anyway.

 

January 30, 2015 10:41 am  #1807


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

There is one thing in the chronology of events that makes me wonder - when exactly does Sherlock have his epiphany and realises that Mary did not nearly kill but save him and that she should be trusted (please note that he does not say he forgives her)? Look at the order of events:

- He is shot by Mary
- Mind palace = being shot by Mary the bride / "That wife! John Watson is definitely in danger!" 
- Mary threatens him in hospital
- Sherlock tries to deduce Mary in his mind palace and sets his plan in motion
- Mary follows him as expected to Leinster Gardens and threatens to kill him again 

This is not speculation but what we get in the show. And then - out of the blue and without any positive move on Mary's side - Sherlock starts to excuse what she did and begs John to trust her. This is not logical. This change of mind is explained nowhere which lets me conclude that it is either bad writing or that there is a hidden agenda. As the show is usually not badly written, I opt for the latter. 


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January 30, 2015 10:45 am  #1808


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

That is an interesting question, Susi. When reading this I remember the outcast scene between Mary and Sherlock where she says she almost killed him and so forth. Maybe the shooting of the coin was some kind of test? She misses the middle thus never wanted to thus exactly placed the bullet into Sherlock?

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January 30, 2015 10:50 am  #1809


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

Well, she indirectly threatens him even after she shot the coin. "And I will never let that happen."

I cannot imagine that they would rely on a deleted scene to explain such a fundamental question. My theory is quite simple: we do not get this explanatory moment because Sherlock does neither trust nor forgive Mary. 
 


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January 30, 2015 10:56 am  #1810


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

Hm, yes, makes the most sense. Sherlock turns from looking almost repelled to a very quick:"sort it out!"


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January 30, 2015 11:00 am  #1811


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

Yes. And we should not forget that Sherlock never says that he forgives Mary - contrary to Sherlock asking and finally begging John to forgive and being expressly forgiven.
Of course one may argue that he tells John to trust her and invites her to his parents' home but this could also be part of a plan. 


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January 30, 2015 11:09 am  #1812


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

SusiGo wrote:

There is one thing in the chronology of events that makes me wonder - when exactly does Sherlock have his epiphany and realises that Mary did not nearly kill but save him and that she should be trusted (please note that he does not say he forgives her)? Look at the order of events:

- He is shot by Mary
- Mind palace = being shot by Mary the bride / "That wife! John Watson is definitely in danger!" 
- Mary threatens him in hospital
- Sherlock tries to deduce Mary in his mind palace and sets his plan in motion
- Mary follows him as expected to Leinster Gardens and threatens to kill him again 

This is not speculation but what we get in the show. And then - out of the blue and without any positive move on Mary's side - Sherlock starts to excuse what she did and begs John to trust her. This is not logical. This change of mind is explained nowhere which lets me conclude that it is either bad writing or that there is a hidden agenda. As the show is usually not badly written, I opt for the latter. 

I always thought he figured it out while in hospital. After all, he didn't have much else to do but thinking, and we clearly see him turning down his dose of morphine so to be able to think easier.

I also agree with what swanpride wrote. Sherlock has no problem doing all the things mentioned in his post, because he thinks he has good reason to. And so he doesn't have a problem forgiving Mary when he sees that she thinks she had good reason to do what she did. John is the one who thinks more like regular people do, always have. Sherlock works on a very different spectrum, and it seems Mary works a bit like that too.


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January 30, 2015 11:15 am  #1813


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

So you think he was fine with her following him to Leinster Gardens and threatening him again? Does not work for me. 

And still no one has pointed out when Sherlock forgives her. But maybe he does not forgive her because she does not ask for it. 

In the show again and again we get scenes in which people ask forgiveness and are forgiven. Sherlock to Molly, Sherlock to John, I think even Mycroft says sorry at one point or other. We get Sherlock and Janine making up. But in this case there is - nothing. 

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January 30, 2015 11:20 am  #1814


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

But Sherlock has never required of himself to forgive someone else, or have them apologize to him. I don't think he sees the need, really. I think he just settled it in his mind when he figured out why she did it, and that was that. I honestly think that's how he works in many cases. It's the "normal" people like Molly and John that requires to forgive and be forgiven. 

(That is, Sherlock required that John forgave him.But I think he's so used to being the one that people need to forgive, I've never seen a situation where he requires other people to apologize to him).

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January 30, 2015 11:25 am  #1815


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

So we just have to assume that Sherlock forgives Mary although he does not say so and although she does not ask forgiveness and shows no remorse and although it all comes out of the blue? Well, in this case I have to opt for the bad writing after all. 


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January 30, 2015 11:30 am  #1816


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

For me it was clear that as soon as he understood her intentions and reasonings, he was fine with it. After all, he expects everybody else to be fine with all his actions as soon as they understand his intentions and reasonings. So it makes sense that he would show others the same courtesy. So I don't think he forgave her, per say, just accepted it the way he wants other people to accept what he does.

For me that's not bad writing, it's good writing when you don't have to spell everything out because a character's action makes sense within the frame work of said character. And for me, Sherlock's actions does make sense, ref. my paragraph above. 


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January 30, 2015 11:43 am  #1817


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

Then we have to agree to disagree. I have watched the episode really often and I still flinch at the 221B scene if taken at face value. Does not work for me. 


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January 30, 2015 11:48 am  #1818


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

Swanpride wrote:

Yeah, Mary put Sherlock through a lot of pain. But that's my point. It is exactly the kind of solution Sherlock would come up with. He once tortured a dying man for information. He experimented on John multiple times. He left an old woman strapped to a bomb for hours in order to have time to investigate. He dated Janine for the sole purpose of breaking into the office of her boss. He let John believe that he died for two years after forcing him to watch his supposed suicide. It is no wonder that Sherlock has no trouble to forgive Mary, because if Mary's actions are not forgivable, than he himself would be beyond John's forgiveness, too.

I guess literally ripping a hole through a friend who offered his help the minute before is just the point where it crosses the line for me.. torturing serial killers or letting people live through a period of fear in order to catch the big bad guy does not. But I guess we all set our boundaries different.. 

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January 30, 2015 11:54 am  #1819


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

Good point. 


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January 30, 2015 12:01 pm  #1820


Re: My thoughts about Mary (all episodes)

In all those moments mentioned above, we got to understand Sherlock´s motivation through storytelling. We knew why he acted that way. We could connect and relate to him.

No such case with Mary. We never see into her motivation - and her shooting Sherlock lacks any. Sherlock doesn´t figure everything out about her in hospital - in fact, he has one of the scariest visions of her, dressed in her femme fatale clothes, taunting him, menacingly defying him... and after this Sherlock suddenly claims it was surgery, Mary saved his life etc.

It´s as if two storylines (in both of which Mary was a different character) were just mechanically connected together without neccessary connections concerning psychology of the characters and chronology of the story being made.

This story really cannot be taken as it is outwardly presented to us. It cannot be taken at face value. Because it just doesn´t hold in this form.

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